Boys Drool!!!
My teen angst is getting to me. Keifer the boy that I thought was awesome for Meg...took out her heart, threw it on the ground and stomped on it!!! I can't believe it!!! At first I was upset but now after seeing my baby girl upset and at the brink of tears I want his blood. Part of me thinks they will be back together and really it is junior high love...but I invested time in this boy...Griffin loves him....my family love him....and I SCRAPBOOKED HIM!!! I know Meg was crazy about him just by the way she looked at him. She loved him...granted puppy love...but love. The thing that really pisses me off is he wrote her an email on Sunday stating how much he loves her and so happy that they are together and blah blah blah...and then BAM breaks up with her on Monday. I told Meg not to jump into anything to quickly....for her and for me!!
In other news....I saw James Blunt last night in concert and I gotta tell ya...fantastic. The boy can sing!! It was a great show. I also saw Blast this weekend with some great friends that shall remain nameless to protect them from the jealousy from other friends....another time for that rant. Blast was basically a marching band on crack....incredible. New respect for the Spirit of Oklahoma!!
Either way...better go check and make sure Meg is okay and not still bawling and listening to Nick Lachey's song "What's left of Me"....why is it when girls get dumped we listen to the most depressing songs for like weeks and guys are hanging all over the "new girl" at lunch....ARRRRGGG!!! I WILL be teaching Griffin how to be a sensitive man...not to sensitive but you gotta respect women. And really what am I going to do if they get back together??? Do I just let him back into the family like no biggie or what?? Damn, I think I need a drink....
posted by Chi-Town Okie at 2:09 PM
4 Comments:
I think. . .I don't know. I only have a 5 year old!! I think that Megan will have boys come and go, obviously, but this one was--supposedly--nice and sweet and good, and now he has morphed into the traditional awful 15 year old boy. And you guys liked him. And Griffin. And it is HORRIBLE to see your child hurt and upset (I can't stand mine being sick/injured, so I have some understanding of that). But you just need to be there for her, thank the Lord she comes to you about this, and try to not take on her hurts as your own. We all want to protect our children (esp. those of us who didn't fully experience that feeling as kids), but they have to go through crappy things. All we can do as moms is talk to them, be open and honest, and give hugs, giggles and lunch dates to try to ease the hurt. That's the best I can do, considering I have yet to experience this.
5:25 PM
Dude you have GOT to start calling me at home if I don't answer my cell!!!!!! I feel like I've left you hanging out in the open today!!!!
Poor baby girl. First loves hurt so badly when something screws them up, especially when it's the boy in question. I agree with Amy in that you need to be there for Megan and reign in your desire to make the boy beg for mercy. Easier said than done, I can only imagine, as the mama bear gets brought out in all of us when our babies are hurt. I'd also hold off on any destruction of finished scrapbook pages for now, too, because you never know. I know, after hearing you talk about Keifer and how you could picture him as a son-in-law waaaaaayyy in the future, that you're hurt and disappointed by this, too. Just be there for her and thank your lucky stars that she's turning to you for guidance, venting, and understanding. I'm thinking of you both.
6:46 PM
She's still very, very young. Love stinks sometimes. But part of the learning curve too. Heck, if I had a dime for everytime I had my heart broke...shit, nevermind, it only adds up to 50 cents.
4:28 AM
You guys are great!!! Jimmy I am sure it is more than 50 cents...and Kim & Amy just wait!!! I will be there for you two while my little Griffin is the one breaking the girls hearts.
8:38 AM
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